That’s just science. Bottom line is The Netherlands have a very “accepting” culture, and same-sex marriage has been legal there since 1996. Not only are suicide rates higher amongst the gay population, but it’s even higher amongst the married gay population. I don’t believe that gay marriage leads to suicide: I believe the same emotional wounds which lead to same-sex attractions can also lead to suicide. It’s when those wounded people realize that the gay marriage isn’t what they really want, they tend to give up completely. The Church can share what they truly need, what will truly fulfill them; it’s incumbent on us to share that.